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Lies and Lying

When a loved one is caught up in a lie, maybe many lies, it can be very difficult to learn to trust that person again.

People lie for many reasons but one of the biggest ones is that they believe that in the short run, their lives will be filled with more pain or they will cause more pain if they tell the truth. So they lie to save themselves or others pain--in the short run.

It usually ends up that the pain of the lie is far greater than if they had been truthful but in the moment, especially if lying has been a habit since childhood, a lie just seems easier.

Some people lie because they don't trust that the other person will honor what's real and truthful for them.

Some people lie because lying is how they figured out how to get what they wanted in childhood--and now it's a habit.

Some people are simply pathological liars and nothing you do could change them.

Whatever the reason, if you are with a person who lies, you need to get to the bottom of why he or she does it and then work together to resolve and heal.

Should you put up with lies?

Of course not. But there usually is a reason and a person can stop lying if he or she has help and has the desire to stop.

If you want to find out the truth, here's a sure-fire way to do it...

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