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Spying is a complicated subject and here are a few thoughts...

If you have the feeling that your partner is cheating but don't know for sure, spying by looking at email, cell phone or phone records certainly can give you the "evidence" that you need to prove it. And can help you toward resolution.

But...spying can also become an addiction in itself. If a person fears being cheated on and becomes so consumed with jealousy that spying is a constant activity, it's not healthy.

For some people, even though they don't find any evidence of wrong-doing, they keep on checking their partner's email and cell phone. It becomes an addiction and they can't stop.

What it comes down to is this...

Spying can certainly help you prove your point but if you're doing it and you're not getting your evidence--and you still do it because you fear that if you don't do it, you'll be broadsided--we invite you to become conscious of your actions.

Become conscious of why you are taking the action you are taking and if it's just your fear talking--and no evidence shows up to support it, find a way to stop doing it.

Many people have been hurt over and over and that's why they spy--so they won't be caught unaware again.

But if you've been cheated on in the past, you have to start learning how to separate out your fears from the past with what's actually happening in your present.

If you want to find out the truth without hiring a private detective, here's a sure-fire way to do it...

Here is some other information about spying to help you...

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